I don't know enough to feel adequate or knowledgeable to speak about what happened or to fight and prevent it from happening again. I don't know anything except being human. I couldn't begin to understand your loss, of which I am truly sorry. In my world your tragedy couldn't be avoided, which was great in its own way. Everyone I knew was spreading awareness of what happened and their outrage and their grief, and everyone was showing support for your tragedy in their own way. But while the fire may have died down on the social networks, I know (simply from human experience) that your fire is still burning. While I'm sure that this is far in the future, I hope that the day comes when your fire will burn under new kindle. A peaceful one. And in the coming days I hope that you can surround yourself with friends and family who love you and will help to be there for you in the hardest of times. God bless each of you for your bravery.
by Jason in Cupertino