You all have been constant in my thoughts. I cant imagine the pain you must be experiencing... a mother of 2 children myself my heart breaks for everyone in Newtown whether directly impacted or not. The courage of the faculty in your district astounds me- true heroes... we are all grieving along side you... much love and prayers...
by Melissa in Holley Permalink
So Sorry SO Sorry For your Loss It Is A terrible Thing That Happened Should never had happened at all I cant imagine the pain You all are going through for the families and the town . But please don't hold hate in your heart . for he will be punished for what he did to your beautiful Children. Hold on to the memories you have of your precious angels . I know there is nothing anyone can say to bring peace to you .I cant say it will get easier in time for that is just not true you will learn to cope with it in your way , in your time .I sure everyone wishing around you to take the pain away dont blame yourselves. it will just eat you up .grief is a hard road Im So truely sorry No child should have to live or die that way To the teachers and there Families Thank you for all you did to help save the lives of the children You truely are Heroes, God bless .All Of the families In the town will be in our prayers. When God calls little children to dwell with him above, We mortals sometime question the wisdom of his love. For no heartache compares with the death of one small child Who does so much to make our world, seem wonderful and mild. Perhaps God tires of calling the aged to his fold, So He picks a rosebud, before he can grow old. God knows how much we need them, and so he takes but a few To make the land of Heaven more beautiful to view. Believing this is difficult still somehow we must try, The saddest word mankind knows will always be "Goodbye." So when a little child departs we who are left behind Must realize God loves children, Angels are hard to find. If I knew it would have been the last time That I'd see you fall asleep, I would have tucked you in more tightly and pray the Lord, your soul to keep. If I knew it would have been the last time that I'd see you walk out the door, I would have given you another hug and kiss and called you back for many more. If I knew it would have be the last time To see you dance and play, I would have video taped each action and word, so I could play them back day after day. If I knew it would have been the last time, I would have spared an extra minute to stop and say "I love you," instead of assuming you knew I did. If I knew it would have been the last time I would have be there to share your day, instead of assuming you had so many more. I'd like to say how much I love you and I hope now people realize Tomorrow is not promised to anyone, young or old alike, And today may be the last chance you get to hold your loved one tight. So hold your loved ones close today, and whisper in their ear, Tell them how much you love them and that you'll always hold them dear Take time to say "I'm sorry," "Please forgive me," "Thank you," or "It's okay." And if tomorrow never comes, you'll have no regrets about today. The loss of a child no matter what age Doesn't seem to ease the pain. Whether it be one day or a lifetime of memories In your heart they'll always be. How do you stop a parent from feeling the pain Their life has changed and will never be the same. Their child s face will always stay in their mind Remembering of things and times gone by. The emptiness that you feel in your heart Is a feeling that will never part. It's as if a finger or a hand has been taken away And you try to adjust and can't find the way. It's like one minute you can see and the next Minute you've gone blind, and there is Nothing that you can find. You wander helplessly in a deep fog Not knowing where you're going Or where you've been, and your screaming and cursing is a downright sin. God had plans for your child you see And this is the way that it has to be. Your child was chosen because there Is a job that must be done And god felt he/ she was the perfect one. The pains you feel while here on earth Is nothing compared to when you see Your child s new birth.
by misty Ward in charlestown Permalink
Dearest Beloved,
Hello. My name is Kim from Rutgers University in New Jersey. I apologize firstly, as I realized I had been living under a rock as I was actually writing a 20-page single space paper for my final project during the time of the happening. My friend actually came in and delivered the message on what had happened. Immediately, that friend and I lifted a prayer for the families. I still do.
However, as days went by, I came to remember that, though sometimes bittersweet, there is a magnificent truth about this life on earth, and it is that things won't every be the same twice through. Everyday, something changes whether we're conscious of it or not. From the cellular processes in our bodies to the earth's rotation and its revolution around the Sun, each passing second becomes an extraordinary event in our lives and in the lives of the people around us.
There is no way to replace a person, or relive a memory, or replay a moment, but we can surely add on to it. This doesn't mean to forget and leave what we lost, but there is so much room to build and stretch. We can love a little more.. live a little more.. create more memories.. and grow. I urge you to keep lift your chin up and look forward. I encourage you to smile from the depths of your heart at the love and prayers your loved one is pouring out to you from where he or she is. I really believe you are being loved as much as your precious one is being missed.
Once again, chin up.. For you are loved dearly.
-K.
by Kim in Rutgers Permalink
Dear Newtown, CT: I'd like to thank all of you for allowing the rest of us to grieve alongside you in this tragedy. Your children and loved ones that you lost are now ours also. You do not need to carry the burden of sorrow alone. We are here to support you. Know that you are not alone. God is with you to carry you through this terrible moment. I am so truly sorry for your loss. I know that nothing can bring the lives of 26 beautiful loved ones back. My heart has been broken along with yours. But please know that the Bible says the Lord holds each and every tear we shed. He doesn't want to see any of you in pain. I will not stop praying for the Holy Spirit to console and comfort each and every one of you, and give you the peace that surpasses all understanding that you may remember all the wonderful moments spent with your loved one. The children are in heaven right now. Don't doubt it. They are in the best place possible. Our Lord declared the kingdom of heaven belongs to them. My prayers will continue for the rest of the children of Sandy Hook, the other children of Newton in general, the first responders, and everyone in general that the trauma, anguish, fear, and anxiety you may be feeling will subside. The Lord give you strength. This event has been indelibly sketched into our lives. It will never be forgotten. Your 20 children and 6 adults will never be forgotten.
by Diana in Pembroke Pines Permalink
My heart hurts so much. I have cried many tears for you. I am sorry for what happened. But Newtown has been such an inspiration - uplifting tales of heroes and a united community. Truly amazing, you have so much to be proud of. Those beautiful angels will never be forgotten.
by Megan in Vancouver Permalink
You are loved. You are loved, you are loved, you are loved. God gives, and God takes away. During these times, please know that God really does love you, and that He brings healing, and that He is here with you.
by Rachel in New York Permalink
To the Newton, CT community, My heart breaks for all of you in light of this recent tragedy. As a college student who is studying in the education field, I admire the courageous faculty, staff, parents, and of course, children who are now angels of Heaven. Please know that my endless prayers are with your entire community. You are all great symbols of strength, courage, and hope for many people around the world. With love and prayers, Joni
by JOAN M. GILL in NORTH OLMSTED Permalink
Dear Newtown, there aren't any words to describe how brokenhearted I am for you all. So many lives taken far too soon. In our home we have 27 candles lit at night...one for each of the victims of this senseless act. Please know we are all behind you and mourning the horrific losses. We love and keep you in our heavy hearts. God bless you all. The Thomas family xoxoxoxo
by caileen thomas in sugar grove Permalink
Hey guys! just wanted to let you know so many people are praying for you. When something like what happened, happens the whole country hurts. God will withhold all of you. All of the little ones are with him now. Stay Strong :) For I the LORD thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not; I will help thee. ISAIAH 41:13
by Maddy Enderle in Northridge Permalink
My prayers and thoughts go out to all of you victims of this terrible event. The memories of these precious loved ones and heroes will live on forever. I am terribly sorry for your loss and pray that your families will rebuild and grow stronger from this tragedy. God bless.
by Samantha in Englewood Permalink
"With the new day comes new strength and new thoughts." - Eleanor Roosevelt
by Raj in Dumont Permalink
Monday morning as I pulled into school something was immediately different, starting with the flag at half mass. The entire student body and faculty seemed a little more solemn, and the excitement of the approaching break seemed not so important anymore. Things were much quieter, not silent, but quieter. I sat down in my first period class and my teacher immediately brought up the shooting. Some were angry, others were sad, but everyone was confused. The most commonly used punctuation mark of the day was definitely a question mark, most of the time following "why?". Why? It's a good question. One that no one can seem to find an answer to. No matter how many clues we get, none of us will really know "why?" At least for myself, any answers that the police or newscasters give me will not suffice. It is difficult to decide what to do next, if there is anything to do. Every time I see a young child, or pass my local elementary school, my heart aches. As much as I wish I could turn back time and somehow prevent this from happening and somehow save all those lives, I can't. And that made me angry for awhile. It made me angry that there is absolutely nothing I can do to make this any easier. I can't take away the hurt that so many mothers, fathers, sister, brothers, and friends are feeling. I can't change what has happened, none of us can. So after much deliberation I realized that what I could do is remember. I can remember the selfless acts of the sandy hook staff that saved many young lives. I can remember the 6 and 7 year olds that did incredibly brave things to save themselves and their classmates, things that I can't say I would be able to do as a 17 year old. I can remember the names. Not the name Adam Lanza, but the name Victoria Soto, or Emilie Parker, or Daniel Barden. I can remember that as much as my teachers can irritate me, they truly do care about me. I can remember that life is so fragile, and you never know when you or someone you love may leave this world. I can remember to love. To love my family, my friends, my classmates, teachers, neighbors, everyone, because they have all helped shape me into the person I am. So as hard as this is, and how angry and upset this has made me, I know that I can't change the past. I know in a few weeks that the media will stop reporting, and the investigation will wind down, but the pain and confusion of it all will live in our hearts forever. We cannot change the past, but we can better the future. God bless Newtown, God bless Sandy Hook. Too many lives were taken too soon. I bet heaven is a beautiful place to spend Christmas, and I know all those little souls are looking after all of you.
by C in Baltimore Permalink
We cannot even begin to understand the experience you all had to endure through the shooting this month. Nor can we find a logical reason for a mad man's thoughts and actions. But I want you all to know that your pain is not only being comforted by what can come from our tongues. As a fine arts major and freshman in college, I have dedicated my time into my drawing studio final to create an artwork that will speak more than just words for the victims of Sandy Hook Elementary School. Just remember that God has "plans for all of us; plans to prosper us, and not to harm us. Plans to give us a hope and a future". My heart heavily breaks for those involved in the shooting; as well as the policemen. God will always be with you all, even if you feel He is against you.
by Lauren in Wyckoff Permalink
I would be lying if I said that I understand your pain. I would be lying if I said that things will ever be the same. I would be lying if I said that I understand why these things happen. But I am telling the truth when I say that God loves you and will help you through if you let Him Romans 8:28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him Trust in Him and he will carry you through We pray for you. We love you. <3
by Yaw in Princeton Permalink
Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. I am a mother to a 9 year old boy, and I couldn't imagine never seeing or touching him again and how much pain you all must be going through. It's hard to listen to how special your children were and not shed a tear. You all are so much stronger then I could ever be, you all have not let this horrific act bring you down. I'm sure your children are looking down right now seeing just how much all of you and the rest of the nation care. Their deaths WILL NOT be in vain. Stay strong as hard as that may be sometimes because they are looking down on you and wouldn't want to be the cause of your pain. I will be praying for you all.
by Stephanie in Lexington Permalink